So my 24/M girlfriend 22/F are in long distance for 2 years now( she lives 1hour away) and we used to have quality time and stay connected through our the day, or in worst case scenario we always have a call before sleeping, recently to be precise, nearly one month ago she went on a vacation with her extensive family( her mom, sister, and cousins) the thing is she does update me and she did call me a few times to lemme know that her phone is dying or just to talk for a few minutes,.
But what i don't like is for nearly a month we didn't even talk or have an intimate moment together, we barely talk/text for more than 10mn before she fell asleep or get busy again.

I understand that vacations are time demanding but in the meantime i think that i also deserve a bit of her time, just for us.

For example yesterday she texted me that they got home from the beach, and told me to wait for her to take a shower so we could call, i waited till 4am only to find out next morning that miss fell asleep and surprisingly she didn't apologize for making me wait for her.

Whenever she's free at home she always seems to avoid contacting me while she's with her family saying that it's rude for her to use the phone While she's with people
I don't know if I'm asking too much but clearly I just think that i deserve to have her for a moment.

I brought this to her a'd told her that recently we are not having conversations like we used to, and that our talk was just about saying good morning good night, and her sending me snaps of where she is. She said that she knows that she doesn't give me the time i deserve and she thinks about it but again she didn't do anything to fix it.

Do you think that I'm asking too much?
Or that her intentions with me shifted?
I'm not an overthinker but clearly this make me overthink


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