Hoping this is an OK forum, the other ones disallow sex-related Q's.
I'm (HOPEFULLY!) making a some fun videos with a partner tonight. Thinking through the best way to share those clips so we both have them, but they remain reasonably secure (we both have kids, so not sure cell-to-cell is the best, plus, I am Android and he is iPhone, so some stuff is off the table.)
He's not very tech savvy, so I'd love to have an easy solution ready to go so that we both have them.
We may shoot on one of our cells, or we may use a standalone 4D digital camera (which would mean moving them off the SD and somewhere to share.)
I had thought Signal was relatively secure (encrypted peer-to-peer), but have since learned that it might not be very secure at all (namely, I did this with another partner who said Signal was secure, and, when shit hit the fan, I deleted the channel before doing anything else, but he still had ALL those videos. He hadn't saved them– he just could still access them even after I deleted everything. And then gave me an earful for being an idiot in thinking it was secure.)
Anyhow, having learned from past traumas, I do trust this person for this activity– this is more a question about ease of securely sharing, and, especially, sharing in such a way that if one of our kids pick up our cellphones they aren't met with more than they ever wanted to see of mommy's "lady butt' or daddy's "pickle."