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My partner says that my fingers are rough inside their vagina, and that it makes fingering them unpleasant.
I notice that things start off pleasant sometimes but then suddenly come to an end to this, and it’s a complete mood kill. I know they’re into what we do and that they want to be pleased physically in this matter.
I have asked them to clarify. It is not me using too much pressure inside of them, it is the actual physical texture of my hands is too rough?
Should I be moisturizing my hands? my fingertips are calloused on one hand because I play guitar and we do use lube, but even on the other hand this happens so I am wondering what i have to do to rectify this. I want to stop giving them mediocrity because they’re absolutely mind blowingly good at pleasing me.
I, of course, always keep my nails cut and hands clean, and I go slow until they signal me to do more. We stimulate each other in other ways as well, mainly nipple play and, for them, clitoral stimulation.
edit: this happens slightly less with one finger, but often i start with one, then they want me to go to two, and then bam nope. It happens with one too though, and not rarely either.
Thanks