When me and my fiance first met, sex was unimaginable. I swear we could fuck for hours multiple times and it was amazing.
Then I got pregnant. I didn’t want to be touched, kissed, or especially have sex. He was very understanding, sexually frustrated ofc, but never pressured me to have sex. We had sex a total of like three times I think the entire 9 months.
Well our kid is now a year and a half and the magic just hasn’t came back. We’ve tried having sex as frequently as possible, as much as you can with having a baby, and it’s just not the same. For one, he cums so fast. He’s always so upset when he does, but after this long of it happening, I don’t know how to feel about it. He’s even accused me of sleeping with other people because “you’re not getting off with me so you’ve got to be getting off with someone else.” But I’m simply not. I have a low sex drive since the baby, which sucks, but if I need to, I’ll just masturbate after. But we do have great sex every once in a while, I just wanna have great sex EVERYTIME. I want to cum everytime. There’s just gotta be something I can do to make him last longer. Like talk about video games? Like idk what to do that won’t make him a limp dick in 15 seconds.