How are the other members of this forum dealing with being demisexual especially in this modern (what I would consider hypersexual) world?
I feel like I’m always attracting the wrong people? Or maybe they aren’t the wrong people and it’s normal interactions, I just see it as overly sexually charged…
At the risk of sounding narcissistic, I’m aware I’m conventionally attractive, but I just don’t understand why they would even want to do that in the initial phase rather than get to know me properly first.
I also feel like an asshole for going out on multiple dates with a guy, knowing he wants sex, and I can tell they start feeling like they are being strung along but that’s not what I’m doing…
I’m 28 now (first had sex when I was 23 in a relationship) and it’s making me feel jaded and a bit sex repulsed. I don’t want to spiral deeper into this feeling because I love sex (when it’s with an emotional connection) but the interactions are making me want to withdraw.
I’d appreciate any advice 🩷