Mismatched libidos or more?
My s/o (25 M) and I (22F) haven’t had sex in a month. We don’t live together, but do hang out quite often, almost every day. In the past our sex life has been amazing, even though we have different sex drives with mine being much much higher, we’d settled on once or twice a week as enough, and me servicing myself if i need to. Most times, even if he’s too tired to have sex, he’ll finger me or go down on me, or do SOMETHING that shows he’s interested in me sexually, but recently, that has completely changed. His interest in it, or me has completely vanished. I keep trying to be positive and not trying to blame myself or question whether i’m attractive to him anymore, but it’s beginning to get to me, and leading to some resentment on my part which i feel guilty for. I’ve attempted to discuss it with him a few times but that hasn’t yielded much, as he seems very uninterested. Although this aspect of our relationship is a source of dissatisfaction, as certain needs have been pushed to the back burner, everything else is perfect. He’s a very sweet, loving and caring man, we go on dates and hang out very often, and so we connect on other levels beyond the physical, but sometimes a girl just needs to get fucked, yknow?