Some people have problems with dating… some people don’t know why… some people are consistently mistreated no matter what they do… do you know how they cope? By searching for answers… by looking at success stories… all this makes perfect sense.
However, whenever someone is struggling to understand why things happen the way they do, and they compare themselves, a non-successful person, with success stories, they’re labeled as “nice girls” or “pick mes” (which isn’t even the correct use of the word).
It’s so annoying that if you say that you’re constantly treated as subhuman & don’t know why bc nothing makes sense, people take it upon themselves to ridicule you & year you down even more with unhelpful & rude nicknames. Literally wtf.