Looking to hear the thoughts and experiences of those who don't feel strongly about wanting kids but also aren't exactly against having kids. Maybe you are dating now or have already formed a relationship with a woman and felt comfortable letting her decide if you have kids or not. How have things worked out for you?
I am trying to understand how a grown adult person could feel neutral ("meh, you decide" type way) about a huge life altering thing like kids and parenthood. How do you feel okay not making that active decision yourself and instead allow someone else to decide for you. Life with kids is so different from being childfree, so how is it possible to be okay with either outcome?
I don't mean to sound judgemental, I'm genuinely just trying to understand.