So I (18M) recently started a new Job, and I’ve grown to be much more open and my joking-self with my coworkers, and it really doesn’t matter who I’m with, I treat everyone completely the same. Even if they’re quiet new hires. But now, 4 months in, I’ve noticed an influx of my female coworkers, and literally only female coworkers (Same Age) asking me for my socials in person, adding me without me giving them my socials, and even messaging me about work and the day prior. One of them (17F) even recently asked me to go to the place we work with her and another coworker. Now I never try to flirt or anything, mostly because I’m not attracted to any of my coworkers emotionally. But why is it that I’ve gotten a startling influx of friend requests and occasional messages.
I also notice a lot of states and whispering, like I really just don’t understand it, I often think someone’s playing a joke on me or maybe there’s something in my nose but idk. I’m really not that interesting or attractive of a guy, I feel like all my stats are pretty much spread evenly.
TL;DR, I’ve received an influx of female coworkers interacting with me outside of work. But I don’t really know why.
2 comments
Are the girls at your work good friends? It might be that one of them likes you and the rest are trying to co-ordinate a set up.
Either that or you are very hot stuff, and when they heard that one of them got your socials, the rest felt brave enough to add you.
they’re trying to get you to do thier work for them.