Hi…
So me (16F) and my bf (16M) had sex for the first time today (or kinda first time because we tried yesterday but we couldn’t get it in). I was a virgin and he has some expirience already.
I lasted pretty long, and I enjoyed it, but I didn’t feel any sexual pleasure and he didn’t cum. Doesn’t mean it wasn’t good, because we went down on each other and although I didn’t feel much he really enjoyed when I did it on him.
We have been together for about a month, and feel super comfortable and safe. Yet it was really difficult. I am on 10 mg of prozac and I think it might be messing with my libido bc I never masturbate either. The only way I have achieved orgasm is with a pillow and they are always super weak and lackluster.
Don’t know what to do really. Any advice? What does this mean?
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There’s nothing wrong with u, usually people are terrible at sex the first few times, and definetly do not orgasm the first tines either, some women actually take very long before they do, just focus on having fun for now, experiment, communicate, and do not only focus on what feels good for him, find out what feels good for you, more pressure? Less? Faster? Slower? Try everything and have fun and be safe
Perhaps dealing with whatever causes you to be on prozac, not to mention school, hobbies etc should come before the sexual relationship.
You might find that settling your emotional and spiritual self will open you up to those types of feelings.
Honestly I know you won’t want to hear it, but at such a young age you might just not be ready for what you are attempting.
My first time, the dude had one experience before me and just shoved it in, causing me extreme pain and also knocked a photo frame off his wall onto my face 💀😂 not every sex experience is gonna be like the movies