it started when my bf asked me to include a dildo in our sex, now he sometimes ask to be fucked its like me wearing a dick and fuck him and some time he suck on it. it’s new for me so I don’t know he is my first sex partner so I’m a little confused
I don’t even know how to put it or what to ask but please some advice or words of wisdom
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It’s called pegging. Go slow. Lots of lube.
Buy a strap on and make him your little bitch. Dominate him! That’s what he wants!
So if you get a strap on, one thing you should be prepared for is the weird feeling you get when you look down and see a dick on you, when my girlfriend pegged me for the first time she said when she saw the strap on her it was weird because she’s very secure and confident in femininity.
Make sure he does some prep work, as this will be the key to a fun experience, start off with rimming him, then slowly insert it in him, not sure if he has experience with bottoming before, I was fortunate enough to have been with a good amount of guys before getting with my current girlfriend so I knew what to expect. If he’s never done anything like that before it’s gonna hurt like hell at first but the most important thing is that you don’t call it quits because once the initial pain subsides it’s nothing but pure pleasure for him. And if you fuck him good enough you can actually make him cum without even touching his dick through his prostate, and as someone who has had the experience that ever man deserves to experience straight gay or whatever, it is the strongest type of orgasm I’ve ever had
If your boyfriend identifies as straight, make sure to be as accepting and positive about him wanting this as possible as it’s super stigmatized
Prostate milking is also a great preamble to pegging
And once you get into it, fuck him like you want him to fuck you, show that hole no mercy, he will be in heaven
Do you dislike the idea of this? In your post it doesn’t sound like ur comfortable with this
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Pegging. Many many men love this, don’t stigmatize it, don’t ask him of he’s gay because of that if he identifies as straight. It gets the male G-spot…better known as the prostate, it’s quite pleasurable for lots of men. Embrace it, use lots of lube…there are also toys and strap ons now a days that don’t look like dicks…my bf prefers toys that aren’t replicas of penis because it’s not dick he’s into….and he doesn’t like pegging bc there’s a dick involved….he just likes an insertion toy that I can pleasure him with.
Are you turned on by this ? Do you actively want this too? It has to be something you are interested in as well. Don’t peg him just for him if you are unsure about this, and especially since this is your first sex partner, I will tell you that its good to get used to learning what you want as an individual, so that your needs / boundaries are being met during sex and you aren’t pressured into doing anything that makes you feel uncomfortable.
But if you are open to trying new things then by all means the rest of these comments give good suggestions. Just always put YOUR comfort first, before your sex partner’s.
I would say there is nothing wrong with it.
For lots of guys the ass/prostate is a part of the body that reacts very intensly to stimulation as there is a lot of nerve endings there.
So a lot of straight guys also enjoy being fucked in the ass. There is nothing to worry about for you. It’s s relatively common but not so much talked about thing
It’s fun it’s normal. Enjoy
It might be messy, don’t ever make a big deal about it. There are ways to prep to lessen the chances of any mess, but it still happens. We are all human.
Have you two tried the [Amazon position](https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a28775637/amazon-sex-position/)?
He wants to be your Bitch,
He wants you to be the dominatrix,
I understand your new to it, btw it’s call “Pegging”, if thats what he want go for it, Make your partner happy and soon who knows maybe you can turn him into a Sissy Slut but make sure you persuade him to, if he wants to be a Sissy Slut too then go ahead
“Make him Happy” Everybody have Different Kinks
You may want to visit http://www.peggingparadise.com -very informative articles, podcasts, and free webinars, given by a fantastic woman, Ruby Ryder.
Also r/pegging_unkinked r/straightpegging
Men have some fantastic nerve endings placed in a spot that proves god has a sense of humor. 🤣
Have fun.💕😍
Bend him over and give him a prostate orgasm
Personally I love it when my wife uses a Penis replica dildo on me, up my ass. I start moaning about how much I like cock and say things like “ I want you to cum in me!” She knows that I am Bisexual and goes along with it all because of the amount of pleasure that it brings to me.
I love that he’s open! It’s becoming more and more mainstream 🙂 still a long way to go but 🙌 if you are open to it, watch some pegging porn, buy a good harness, a dildo that’s not too big for him, lots of lube, and fuck your bf!
How do you feel about it? Do you like the idea? Do you think it’s weird.
Like other comments have stated, it’s called pegging and a lot of guys like it, because the male g spot is located in the prostate, yeah that’s inside…
If you don’t like it or don’t want to do it, talk with him about it but be nice and try not to shame him, as this will make him feel horrible.