I met this girl at a cafe and she left her number on my receipt and we went on a date about a week ago and since have had sex twice and I feel like I’m performing good and I want to be better but…. Idk I guess it’s something I’m still new to so I’m still a bit scared of it but my questions are
The last 2 times I went down on her for about 10 minutes and used every technique from ever Reddit post and stuck with the one that got the best reaction but my question is should I worry about staying down there too long? I could stay down there forever but I’m afraid it’s gets boring for her or tiresome so I generally move to piv soon after
Also would it be rude to ask her what she wants to do after I cum? I generally snuggle with her for a while after I cum and everyone seems satisfied but I want to make sure she gets off too. How would I go about asking her what she wants to do after with our killling the mood?
I get really stuck in my head about being bad in bed during sex or that I’m gonna kill the mood to the point that doing this stuff is kinda hard for me.
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Try not to overthink it. Be as natural as you can be I mean it’s sex, so the same thoughts might be crossing her mind . I would say 10 -15 mins is good unless stated otherwise. You’ll kind of get a feel of what she likes the more you do it and it all just becomes second nature. I wouldn’t consider that rude , it’s normal to talk about random things after sex. I thinking you doing fine dude. Don’t stress
Congrats man. Just talk to her when you guys aren’t getting down to it. Casual conversations, if you ask her as you have asked us she will appreciate you for it.
Communicate. Stop over thinking. Go with the flow. Youre good my man
how do you feel about not having had sex until 29? since i often hear, 25 is the panic button age in which people start to panic or feel in the extreme minority for still being a virgin