For context him (28m) and I (25f) have been together for several years. Our sex life has had highs and lows and recently we have been having sex multiple times a week. I’ve felt more attraction to him than ever (went off hormonal birth control) and genuinely enjoy sex with him. He has always taken a long time to finish which has never bothered me but I’m so confused how the sex can be so good but neither of us finish?? I can only orgasm one way and it’s on my stomach (looked it up and apparently it’s called the “female death grip”). Idk if I can ever finish any other way. It’s frustrating, so much so I want to cry sometimes towards the end of sex because I want to have that moment with him so bad. Has anyone else experienced this?
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yeah. i try not to drink alcohol and make sure we both have enough foreplay. Sometimes some toys help too
Is it the prone bone position you’re talking about… and do you tense your calves around your clitoris while doing piv in prone bone?
Is it the prone bone position you’re talking about… and do you tense your calves around your clitoris while doing piv in prone bone?
Do alot four play and oral sex tell him hit g spot it not hard to find
I(m) have this issue and my partner(f) sometimes has it. Look up Delayed Ejaculation for you partner.
For my partner and I it is mostly related to stress. I could go hours and not finish (usually stop because it stats to hurt or just too tired).
For us, things change dramatically when we de-stress (vacation, just have a fuck it all weekend….) than we have an easier time finishing.
Regarding positions, being in that position highly stimulates you gspot. There are other positions that can do the same. Maybe try a couple and see if it helps spice thogn up.. Good resource is badgirlsbible.com.