How do you adjust to beginning to watch porn together? I finally tried today because I’ve been wanting to for a long time but I find it distracting with someone in the room because it’s my “personal time” so I was anxious and couldn’t focus. Should I just practice till it becomes comfortable? Has that worked for you?
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Well..did they join you? Where they just sitting there?
Sounds like just some first time nerves!
We love watching porn together, but I definitely was nervous at first because I thought he might not like my choices. I told him I was nervous and why, and we just took turns choosing the videos and talking about it.
We use porn as foreplay, but we also use it to communicate about sex. We ask questions like, does this turn you on? Would you like to try that? Oh, that’s my favorite, what do you think? This is a fantasy of mine….etc. We also giggle and laugh at ridiculously fake stuff or positions that look downright uncomfortable.
Maybe trying talking and laughing with your partner, instead of focusing solely on the porn – that might help you differentiate “watching porn as your private alone time” and “watching porn with your partner” (where it’s more about you and your partner, and not the porn itself)