she says she’s busy and will get back to me. it’s been 3 weeks. I can see from her socials she’s been out with her friends and all. Internship is over. It’s school holidays.

Take the L ?

2 comments

  1. Yep. She ain’t getting back to you and is not at all worth your time. Move on to someone better homie

  2. Move on. They aren’t prioritizing interacting with you, and their actions show it. Leave them alone for now. If you keep overthinking and being anxious about this, you train yourself to become needy and desperate overtime, which will push them away. Stop chasing them and don’t beg them to interact with you. People are hardwired to be repulsed by neediness and desperation and instead gravitate towards somebody who self confident and well rounded in life. Now is the time you need to focus on becoming genuinely busy in life pursuing your goals and hobbies, while learning how to interact with other people on the side. Easiest way to get started is to find some kind of activity you enjoy doing and keep doing it overtime. You will build self esteem and self confidence. Chase excellence, not people.

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