So for a uni club I met this person and we had similar interests and talked about them for two events and they accepted my fb requests. 2 months ago I sent them a funny video and all and they saw but no reply. I figured maybe it was cuz of exam season and all why. 2 months later I asked if they saw this show but no reply and they have not seen my message on fb. Do they dislike me?
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If they don’t tell you directly, it’s all a guessing game. Sometimes it’s personal, sometimes it’s not. I believe that it’s for the best to assume a neutral stance – if they want to reach out again, they have the space to do so. But I found out it’s often better to not push it after people don’t reciprocate – whether it is personal or not, you’d just make yourself feel like sh1t if you’re the one being more accommodating/initiating, because you’d always be giving 50+ %. Or alternatively, you could be walking over their indirect boundaries.