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Things continually happen in our lives and in the world so usually you talk about that. It’s rare that things stay static.
But yeah, sometime there’s not much to say so it’s good to find someone you can be silent around as well.
Come up with some off the wall questions.
Also understand that eventually you very well might run out of conversation. That’s fine too.
If you’re speaking in terms of first dates/first few dates (or even just a friend/acquaintance), asking questions goes a long way. And truly listening. You build upon that – mutual interests, shared experiences, feelings/opinions, etc.
And to get to the point where you don’t have to say anything to each other is special.
If you want to be seen as interesting, be interested in them first. Talk about their passions, what inspired them on it, what are some fun stories/experiences they had.
I can assure you there’s so much to talk about when you allow others to share their stories about their passions w you. 🙂