This isn’t a spit/swallow debate. I get that it feels better to keep the same stimulus and finish in a mouth. My question is how does it feel emotionally for you when your partner swallows?

40 comments

  1. Like they love literally every part of you. If I was gay I’d probably swallow.

  2. Honestly, as long as she does it with a smile on her face, I don’t care if my gf spits or swallow. Maybe I’m weird that way, but it just never really bothered me one way or the other.

  6. Spit or swallow does not change anything, if you ruin her make up by cumming over her face without getting angry, that is true love

  7. My partner does not swallow but has no issue keep blowing me as I cum. She has tot ske a second to spit and keep blowing for that half second it odd because of changes but I love that she puts the effort in it.

  8. For me, other than the continued stimulation, it’s two things:

    * Romantic validation. I know that, out of all the guys out there, she chose to allow *me* to cum in her mouth. I know that, next time she gives me a blowjob, she won’t even ask me where I want to finish; she knows the answer, and she happily goes for it. It’s both the feeling of love — accepting that part of me in her mouth — because she wants to make me feel good and knowing that I’m her #1 choice
    * Submission. This only applies if my partner (like my current one) is into dom/sub play. The fact that she’s on her knees, serving me with her mouth and fully accepting the ‘consequences’ of her naughty actions. Swallowing visibly reinforces the notion that she did a good job and got her ‘reward’.

    I know these reasons might sound shallow to some, and I’ve even been told that it’s degrading and selfish. However, I think there’s nothing wrong in a little validation and power play between two consenting adults, and it’s so damn satisfying when my girlfriend tells me with her actions that she loves this part of me.

  9. I wouldn’t mind if they spit it out, I get that it feels weird, but I find it hot if they do swallow because they think what my body produced is hot (only with cum as it’s a sexual fluid, I’m not into watersports)

  11. For me, the primary feeling is the emotional one. It is saying “this is how bad I want your pleasure…” or “I find nothing about this act with you distasteful”

  12. None of my past partners wanted me to finish in the mouth. Truthfully I’d finish anywhere she wants me to. I really have no reservations about doing it in any spot as long as I have permission.

  13. Its hard to describe and might be a somewhat of a dominance thing, but when a woman swallows, I feel like she has accepted ALL of me.

  14. I don’t care about whether she swallows it per se. It’s more that she doesn’t express disgust toward having it in her mouth.

  15. Let’s put it this way, does it feel different emotionally if a partner who goes gown on you spits you juices or swallows? Swallowing makes me feel more loved and accepted and willing to give back more.

  18. Great but that’s because I know she loves it. Actually i really enjoyed it with my ex too even though I knew she wasn’t overly enthused about it, but it was because she did it for me, despite not liking it. kinda different feeling in both cases guess I never really thought about it like that.

  19. My wife, even when we started dating 42 years ago, still loves to swallow. I feel like it’s a wonderful gift that she’s given me. And she has never protested once.

  20. Meh, don’t care if she swallows or not. I mean swallowing would help with clean up but that’s just selfish.

  21. It’s a show of commitment to give your partner pleasure no different than when a woman squirts on a man or woman’s face when she orgasms from receiving oral

  23. Especially when your partner looks you deep in your eyes as they swallow every bit of your cum… perfection…

  24. Eh. I love to see my cum on various parts of her. When she swallows there’s not much to see.

  25. I feel extremely desired and feel more attached to my girl. Imagine the creation of a core memory in Inside Out. It’s like that.

  26. If you want a greater emotional connection, swallowing isn’t it. What bonded me to a person is a regular bj, but at the finale, transition from mouth to a suuuuuper soaked handjob with her kissing me working her way up, ending with her straddling my leg, and eye to eye intense eye contact with her also gripping the back of my head “I love you”. It’s a vivid memory I frequently jack off to.

  27. My wife swallowed when we were dating and early in our marriage. After 20+ yrs she doesn’t swallow anymore because she never liked it. I appreciate that she did swallow because she knew it made me happy, but regret that she doesn’t want to make me happy like that anymore. I never mention it to her because she told me she doesn’t like it and its important to me to make her happy. I do miss that I want to commit sex rather than committed sex.

  28. I will feel loved and fully accepted. Right now, she don’t swallow, not even cim. Even feel disgusted about cum. This reality really make me feel uncomfortable. Actually, I hate it. But, I cannot force her to do it.

  29. It feels like she wants you and all that comes with it, and then theres a short moment of guilt mixed with happiness. Also the fact that you’re able to finish uninterrupted etc is just way better..

    ​

    If she doesn’t swallow though or even spits it out, the feeling is more like “ait, she’s not really that into me.. protect feelings” xD

  30. It’s like utmost validation. I’d really feel like she is deeply attracted to me and even admires me.

  31. What I can offer is it didn’t really “feel” like anything unique as my first several partners swallowed without comment…it just seemed natural. The first girl to spit…well, yeah, that did suddenly feel like some kind of rejection. Upon reflection & logic, it is not, but that is what it felt like at the time.

    Now….it just seems like a way for there to be less cleanup 😀

  32. It’s even romantic and hot at the Same time. Whenever my gf and I have a second girl in bed and i cum in her mouth, my gf teasingly tells her that my cum is hers and initiates a cumswap Kiss before the unicorn can swallow it.

    The first time that happened I felt the urgent will of asking her to marry me

  33. If they want to swallow, they swallow. But I make sure to drink LOTS of pineapple juice for a while before then. Gotta make every slurp tasty 🙂

  34. Honestly Id be fine if they seem happy having it over their faces or swallowing it.

  35. swallowing makes me think my cum is not going into drain and she might get some nutrients from it

  36. It’s like they’ve taken your soul and put it in their purse and said without words, “You’re mine now.”

  37. Kinda deepens the connection, I think it’s intimate. It’s just such a deeply personal thing to feel it flow from your body directly into someone else’s and swallowing is the sincerest form of “accepting you” sexually I think

  38. My girl warned me that she was not able to swallow. I was just happy she wanted to lick me in the first place. First time I came in her mouth I waited for her to spit, she looked at me, smiled and said, “I swallowed it, never been able to do that before, you teste good.” I honestly did not care if she spit or not but the fact that she can swallow me and no one else really does add a connection.

  39. It’s kind of an accepting feeling but it’s not big deal. My wife recently admitted she doesn’t like to swallow and now I feel bad she did for so long.

  40. I’d rather she didn’t, and here’s why:

    In a long term relationship, I hope she goes down on me as often as possible. The last thing I would ever want is for her to be deterred, and think to herself, “I wanna go down on him tonight, but I don’t want to swallow.” If that thought is in her head, then she might not do it. I can get by without the swallowing thing – I’d just rather she go down more often.

Leave a Reply
You May Also Like