My husband told me he fantasizes about another man oiling my breasts

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1. Just ask him whether this is a fantasy, or whether it’s something he’d like to actually do. As fantasies go, it’s not the craziest :).

2. Don’t read too much into fantasies
   They are not real and sometimes they don’t even make sense or are indication of what they actually want

3. My wife once told me she fantasizes about pimping me out to other men, and laying beside me to kiss me and encourage me while I get fucked in the ass. It’s not something she wants to do in real life, just a mental porno she plays in her head while she’s alone scratching her own itch.

   I’d suggest talking to him. Maybe it’s just a fantasy. Maybe it’s something he thinks he’d like to do IRL (but might regret after the fact). You won’t know until you discuss it. He’s the only one who can tell you.

4. I would suggest figuring out what you are open to before talking to hubby. If you are not open in any way to another man being involved, there is not much point in teasing out how serious he is. Just take it as fantasy, and maybe subtly clarify that with him to ensure you have some boundaries up and clear. If you are turned on by the idea… let him know. It might be fantasy, or something he really wants. But I would suggest figuring out your boundaries first.

5. I suspect he has a cuckold fetish, and he might bring it up later on to progress. Hard to say what do with it.

   Many man nowadays have this fetish of seeing another man giving it to his wife or a threesome with another man.

   Best to talk to him in an open way and see what he wants

6. Sounds like something one might say to plant a seed of thought and consideration

   You could ignore and wait for it to come back up before you approach it OR if you are interested in this bring it up. See if he is actually interested in this. Set up some ground rules and move forward together.

   If you’re absolutely NOT interested, express that too. It’s clear that there is a fantasy which he may find shameful to properly ask for.

   Testing the waters. We all do it in some form or another.

7. You guys should read some reverse harem novels. I can message suggestions if you’d like.

8. He told you his idea.

   Now you get to think about it and decide how you feel about.

   Then you ask him if he would seriously want this idea to happen and tell him what you think about it.

   If you both are interested, how far do you go with it?

   You have a second dick present, rubbing oil on you, the dick is going to get erect. Do you ignore the dick? Do you suck it? Does your husband suck it? Which holes are open to the 2nd dick? Will your husband get jealous with a second dick present?

   There are so many questions.

9. In addition to asking him about whether he wants to actually make this fantasy a reality someday, you might bring some oil into the bedroom and rub it into your own breasts. I bet he’d enjoy that little homage to his fantasy.

10. Maybe he wants to spit roast you

11. First of all, what do you think about the idea yourself?

12. Yknow, sometimes I wonder if I’m really a lesbian, as ya do occasionally. But then I read sentences like “oiling someone’s breasts”, and I remember. :^)

13. So hot!!!!!!!

14. To me it means he likes it when other men worship you and your amazing body and the oiling up of your incredible breasts is the physical manifestation of that worshipping…very lucky man whoever gets that job if it ever cums to fruition.🥵🍆😘

15. I think he’s curious and know for a fact that he would like you to be up for trying it. Maybe he’s into the cuckold/sharing idea. Lucky you! Sounds like he’s definitely willing and wanting you to experiment with another man!

16. Live a little, experiment! You’ll learn how you both really feel about trust etc.

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