Is this neglect?

So my gf (21) and I (22m) have been together for nearly 7 months now. To keep it short, her previous relationship was traumatic for her and her ex did a lot of stuff to hurt her. As our relationship progresses, she becomes more and more triggered about her past and becomes more and more withdrawn and guarded. I really try to accommodate for her in any way I can. First it was a sex/nudity issue, she didn’t always feel comfortable being intimate with me like that. That was perfectly fine, I could handle that and care for her. But now, she’s also asking me to not hug, kiss, cuddle, hold hands with, touch, give compliments, call her pet names like babe/my love/baby, or even sleep in the same bed as her. We both have no idea how long her feeing triggered about this will last. It could be a few hours, days, or week at a time. I know this is something she needs to see me reciprocate in order for her to build the feeing safety and trust in a relationship again. I know it’s not my job to heal her, but I want to be there for her so bad. This girl is my first love and I don’t want to give her up. I really want to be the one who’s there for her for this, but I don’t know if I can or if anyone even could. I can understand maybe this lasting a few hours or a day but if it lasts for days on end? Is that really a fair request of me? It doesn’t even feel like a relationship at that point. All I want to do is be there for her but this is a big ask of someone who is naturally affectionate and feels connected in a relationship with affection. Is this a fair request of any partner? Also to clarify, if she asks me not to do these things I won’t. I’m not going to cross her boundaries, but I wonder if it’s fair to me for her to be in this relationship if she can’t handle what a relationship is. It’s leaving me feeling neglected with my own needs for affection in a relationship, especially physical touch. It’s like I can’t show or receive any sort of love language when she gets like this.