I can talk to anyone girls or guys and i have no problem in sustaining the conversation aswell i am a good speaker etc. All i struggle with is the approach. Like how do i start the talk with girls? I can do it easily with guys but not with girls. I need help

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  1. It depends on your location. People in big cities tend to be far more guarded than people in smaller communities. Approaching people out of the blue is tough. Look out for opportunities. Usually the only time it feels natural is if something unusual is happening (weird dudes doing weird shit, public performances that you’re both observing), or if you’re both dealing with a common immediate issue (missed the same bus, car crash up ahead causing a delay, etc.).

    Without something to actually talk about, approaching people randomly just seems rigid and unnatural.

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