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You should do it, my friends did it that way but their relationship kind of had a boaster after the wedding.
What I would worry is that there is family issues now, make sure these issues or traits don’t become the fall back traits when the relationship has hard times. Many couples have this issue later on.
We eloped and had the big wedding when we were financially able. No regrets, I think a few feelings may have been hurt for not being invited to the “real” wedding but we stuck to our parents and our best friends/witnesses because that was what was true to us. Our big wedding we went all out, invited who we could, had the cake and photos and ceremony and we are grateful we got to marry each other twice.
If you guys want it and can afford it who cares what anyone else thinks. Most of your friends will probably understand and think it’s sweet. Anyone else can kiss your butt.