last night my boyfriend and i tried anal, it was really painful so he was barely even able to put the tip in before i called quits . im still in alot of pain this morning and im bleeding a bit . how can i take care myself ? ive never done this before, im mainly afraid of getting an infection of some sort .
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Just give it time to rest and heal, and next time (if there ever is a next time) insist on WAY more lube
I’m assuming you didn’t start training? You just jumped into it. Anal isn’t something you can just start doing, it takes a lot of preparation; I’m talking week(s) it’s slowly taking from smaller items all the way to a point where you feel comfortable with said size and then upping it up, bit by bit until you can take him. There is muscles there that need training for that. So if you’re willing to try with your partner again, start with one finger. Then move up to two fingers or small size anal plug. Then a. Bigger one. Until you get to the comfort zone with a size similar or bigger than your bf. It might take weeks but then you will be ready! Use lots of lube, silicone based ones are the best for this!