My girlfriend(F27) and I (M30)used to have lot of phone sex earlier since we live in different cities. After we’ve had sex in real couple of times when we went on vacations, She’s now not interested in Phone Sex anymore! Is it normal?
We’ve been together for almost a year now and she is now my fiancée! I’ve tried to have a open discussion about this with her, but it didn’t help!
TL;DR: I’m concerned our sex life is going to dry up soon after marriage just like how she lost interest in phone sex!
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I mean that’s cause you aren’t ldr and it’s more exciting to do things irl. Phone sex can be tedious.
Ask her, man. You’re engaged now so better step up your communication game.
Ask her what her fantasies are, be open for her to express herself. Women stop an activity when it no longer is enjoyable, we get busy and lots of reasons so find out her reason by asking how you can spice up your sex life, then you would know what you need to do more of to keep things interesting. I wouldn’t worry about her not wanting lots of sex during marriage, if you can make her cum again and again then she would want it. Really depends on your skills.