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Sounds like your interest is pretty narrow
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Being confident/displaying confidence helps (greatly).
There is regular ‘turnover’ in partners, this is where you’ve a chance to slip into the rotation.
Are you actively seeking someone? What methods have you tried?
There’s Almost 7 Billion people in the world. About half are women. Not every woman is in a relationship.
>plenty of other men I’m up against
Dating is not a competition dude. Real life is not an episode of the bachelor. Most people are fundamentally not compatible with each other on a romantic level. These things can take longer than others for some. Yeah it can be annoying, but keep your head held high. Most women can get turned off by a woe-is-me attitude.
Instead of being down that you’re single, focus on what makes you happy. Women that are worth your time/energy will be magnetized to you if you are a well adjusted individual.
Good Luck! I know you can do it!
Every woman you are interested in is already with someone? Did you know they were with someone before they were with that one? And, everyone you were with was with someone when you got together.
Not true in all instances, but essentially it is true.
If you fish in a terrible spot you aren’t gonna catch much.
People end up perpetually single because they never change their fishing spot, or their expectations, or their habits.
There are countless women who gripe about the same thing. Unfortunately the issue is typically in how you are fishing for partners and less about the sea being empty or full of sharks.
There are plenty of fish in the sea theres someone out there for everyone and remember what your grandma told you any girl would be lucky to have such a handsome young man