Assuming there is very little foreplay and it’s just “quick” sex that both partners want, can women orgasm or come away not feeling frustrated from quickies?

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  1. I assume women who have an easy time orgasming from PIV are able to come from quickies. Maybe a vibrator on the clit can even help with that.

    But even when they don’t I guess it can still be satisfying. I don’t orgasm every time I have sex. I do miss being able to have quickies though. Sadly they are not possible with my current partner.

  2. I have definitely orgasmed from a quickie! You’re usually so worked up before hand and your lady parts are pulsating, cumming is the only thing left to do! Dirty talk substitutes fore play.

  3. Great question! I love a good quickie, even if I don’t cum. The intensity and passion give me such a rush. Depending on the partner, I can cum quite quickly, but I find just as much satisfaction in seeing/feeling them cum. The whole experience is erotic, especially if it leaves you wanting just a bit.

  4. I don’t necessarily get to orgasm from quickies, but they’re absolutely fun to do and very enjoyable!

  5. For me, sex without orgasm is not necessarily frustrating. There’s other things to enjoy

  6. For the purpose of this kind of question, an uniform group of “women” don’t exist. Similarly, “men” don’t exist either.

    People have different preferences, and are built different. Some do, some don’t.

  7. When I first started dating my wife she would love quickies. She’s be giving me a handjob or blow job and then proceed to ride me until I came. She just hoped on, I didn’t do any foreplay on her. It was about 5 minutes tops. She never came herself but she was always so wet and just wanted me to cum inside her.

  8. Absolutely. If he has memorized my body, he can effectively finger me and make me cum in less than a minute, I’ll be squirting from it, quick easy lube to stick his cock inside and give me a gspot orgasm again. 😅 I find what makes quickies successful is when there is already a big mental connection and it’s two people just absolutely wanting and needing eachother now

  9. Absolutely. If he has memorized my body, he can effectively finger me and make me cum in less than a minute, I’ll be squirting from it, quick easy lube to stick his cock inside and give me a gspot orgasm again. 😅 I find what makes quickies successful is when there is already a big mental connection and it’s two people just absolutely wanting and needing eachother now

  10. Sex can be really awesome even if you don’t come (regardless of if it’s a quickie). Sex is frustrating when you’re turned on and want to come, but your partner is done after they get off.

    If you go into not needing an orgasm and just love the excitement and spontaneity, it’s not frustrating at all.

  11. I can orgasm fairly quickly so quickies aren’t frustrating for me as long as I get my orgasm. If I don’t cum I expect to be have proper sex later so it’s like foreplay.

  12. I’m plenty satisfied when I have a quickie. It’s a 50/50 if I’ll orgasm but I’m not too worried if I don’t because it’s obviously a quickie. Just the sexiness of it and the thrill makes it enjoyable

  15. Depends on how we are moving and grooving. If a quickie has some pure animalistic energy, I’m going to quickly cum back to back. I love controlling the quickie to make my partner cum in 3 minutes, without my orgasm. Just depends on the situation.

  16. I love a quickie! I do cum easily from penetration if my partner is big enough. Hit my spot for 30 seconds and I’m cumming!

  17. I enjoy a good quickie. I love it when my man just bends me over something and pounds it out for a few minutes. I’m probably not going to cum myself, but feeling him cum inside me is pleasure enough.

  19. Almost everytime my boyfriend and I have sex, it’s pretty slow and chill but the one time that he teased me in the morning and left my place, coming back later from the gym, I literally jumped on him and we had to rush because we had to be somewhere but that is the one session that comes to my mind everytime I think of having sex with him. It’s more about the rush, intensity, adrenaline and my body practically screaming “If I don’t have you in me right now I’m going to end it all”. That’s what makes it satisfying. It’s okay if I don’t cum, I just need him with me

  20. In these scenarios for me it’d be more about making me feel good for whatever the duration AND seeing my partner get off. I’m probably not going to cum, but if the goal is a quicky I’m okay with that. I can always play around solo later if I need to

  21. Depends on the woman. We’re all different human beings with different preferences.

    Personally I won’t get off during a quickie, but sometimes I’m okay with that if it’s a fun thing to do for other reasons.

  22. From my personal experience I can have orgasm. And I can be satisfied for a while but that depends on what was that mood of a quickie, if it was rough then I can be satisfied if it was soft or “normal” then that would just make me more horny.

  23. Personally I don’t enjoy quickies. It’s not enough time to really get turned on and the orgasm is always just meh. It’s not frustrating. It’s just not very exciting.

  24. I don’t even care about an orgasm. Sex is just fun with someone you want.

  25. Personally no, but everyone’s different. It’s very painful without enough prep/foreplay regardless of how much lube is used. That said it doesn’t mean regular sex sessions always have to take forever or be super elaborate, just… not a quickie either. I’m also not interested in sex without an orgasm, some people don’t care either way but I’m definitely not one of them.

  26. I’ve never enjoyed quickies, foreplay is my favorite part of sex and there’s usually not much of it with a quickie

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