So Im 21 years old and ive been active since i was 18 and i dont know what it feels like to cum or orgasm ive tried all sorts of things but nothing seems to work its getting really frustrating for me to have sex and then not cum or orgasm at all i thought maybe it was just lack of experience on the guys part but now im wondering if theres something wrong with me i wasnt able to when i was on antidepressants and im still not able to off them and its been several months since i got off them and still nothing cause i was told antidepressants can make it so you cant cum so idk what to do? Does anyone have any suggestions?